Friday, November 28, 2008
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
just 3 steps to creat the blog n see its done.so easy n so simple.i m wondering what i was doing all these yrs..waiting for the right time to creat a blog!but finally its done!
this blog gives a good sense of authority..i mean i can write whatever i want to..its the best thing to express...
this feeling is very important once to syart working. see, i will explain in detail..all these years when i was in school.. .i was waiting for going to college n experiencing the so called "FREEDOM" which all of us saw in many bollywood flicks.but as we grow up we realise that movies are fake n such colleges do not exist on earth.or even if they exist then our parents do not let us take addmissions in such wonder colleges. so then after happy realisation that i will be always answerable to what,why n whom type questions even if i am in college, i gave up the idea of chasing the freedom.
then for my master degree i went to "goa" for two long yrs.no no dont strat imagining..goa,beach, shaks, drinks....nothing doing! this time my parents GIFTED me mobile phone. i was so happy that i can talk with my frnds as long as i wish to. i am in goa so freedom, happiness..but this time also destiny had certain things in her mind. my so called mobile was used telling my parents where i am, with whom am i , n when m i going to reach HOSTEL! It wasnt a hostel..trust me..8 pm in time...what kind of hostel!
so chasing the freedom continued with no success...then i got the JOB. i was so happy. my money my freedom. i will buy this, i will go there, i will be the happiest person on earth. but its now when i realise that college days were so good.even though i was answerable to my parents ..i feel that it was so ok. now once i hv started working..i am no more a college going student..free n tension free..yeah thats so important.here i am answerable to my boss rather tha my parents. suddenly so many resposibilities hv come on shoulder that i often remember why did i strted working? money is the obvious reason. but then slowly i started realising how much i am actually paying to get that money. time, energy everything is given.n then on one peculiar day we get the pay cheque which eventually get deposited in the bank account...n just remains there.i hv no time for family, no time for friends...by the end of the day when i come back i am so tired that i dont even want to talk to anyone.apart from these side effects noukari really teaches which any college book is not able to. it makes the person so damn responsible because everyone who is working knows that here the question is not of red mark or failing in exam..but its about continuing the job. if u dont perform well, then bye bye ,u better sit at home.atleast in todays scenario where financial crisis, job cut etc. are the issues of concern..then u just cant play around with your work.you try to be flexible, tolerant, obidient n what all which can help u to retain the job.then u are afraid to say no. then u r afraid to answer back.the fear continues n then u hear the news of one of ur frnd got kicked off the company n then u again strat counting the remaing days in company.god this is so difficult.but i hv to manage. its all about managing people at right time.
so thats why plz all u guys who are on the othet side of the table...students(plz do not read as studying people) enjoy your school days college days the best. we are never going to get complete freedom anyway so why not enjoy the present day as it comes. as we grow older tension increases n happiness decreases. i mean happiness may not decrease in magnitude but due to increases tensions it will definitely decrease its intensity. i hv learnt a lesson in my life that present day is just the best. its not going to come back at any cost..so keep enjoying the journey of life...there you dont have crisis of happiness ever. its all in our soul n our heart!just let it express itself!! enjoy dear!
this blog gives a good sense of authority..i mean i can write whatever i want to..its the best thing to express...
this feeling is very important once to syart working. see, i will explain in detail..all these years when i was in school.. .i was waiting for going to college n experiencing the so called "FREEDOM" which all of us saw in many bollywood flicks.but as we grow up we realise that movies are fake n such colleges do not exist on earth.or even if they exist then our parents do not let us take addmissions in such wonder colleges. so then after happy realisation that i will be always answerable to what,why n whom type questions even if i am in college, i gave up the idea of chasing the freedom.
then for my master degree i went to "goa" for two long yrs.no no dont strat imagining..goa,beach, shaks, drinks....nothing doing! this time my parents GIFTED me mobile phone. i was so happy that i can talk with my frnds as long as i wish to. i am in goa so freedom, happiness..but this time also destiny had certain things in her mind. my so called mobile was used telling my parents where i am, with whom am i , n when m i going to reach HOSTEL! It wasnt a hostel..trust me..8 pm in time...what kind of hostel!
so chasing the freedom continued with no success...then i got the JOB. i was so happy. my money my freedom. i will buy this, i will go there, i will be the happiest person on earth. but its now when i realise that college days were so good.even though i was answerable to my parents ..i feel that it was so ok. now once i hv started working..i am no more a college going student..free n tension free..yeah thats so important.here i am answerable to my boss rather tha my parents. suddenly so many resposibilities hv come on shoulder that i often remember why did i strted working? money is the obvious reason. but then slowly i started realising how much i am actually paying to get that money. time, energy everything is given.n then on one peculiar day we get the pay cheque which eventually get deposited in the bank account...n just remains there.i hv no time for family, no time for friends...by the end of the day when i come back i am so tired that i dont even want to talk to anyone.apart from these side effects noukari really teaches which any college book is not able to. it makes the person so damn responsible because everyone who is working knows that here the question is not of red mark or failing in exam..but its about continuing the job. if u dont perform well, then bye bye ,u better sit at home.atleast in todays scenario where financial crisis, job cut etc. are the issues of concern..then u just cant play around with your work.you try to be flexible, tolerant, obidient n what all which can help u to retain the job.then u are afraid to say no. then u r afraid to answer back.the fear continues n then u hear the news of one of ur frnd got kicked off the company n then u again strat counting the remaing days in company.god this is so difficult.but i hv to manage. its all about managing people at right time.
so thats why plz all u guys who are on the othet side of the table...students(plz do not read as studying people) enjoy your school days college days the best. we are never going to get complete freedom anyway so why not enjoy the present day as it comes. as we grow older tension increases n happiness decreases. i mean happiness may not decrease in magnitude but due to increases tensions it will definitely decrease its intensity. i hv learnt a lesson in my life that present day is just the best. its not going to come back at any cost..so keep enjoying the journey of life...there you dont have crisis of happiness ever. its all in our soul n our heart!just let it express itself!! enjoy dear!
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